That's exactly what I was thinking today when the eye doctor told me that Adam needs glasses. Part of me wishes I never would have taken him to get his eyes checked, but our pediatrician recommended we get his eyes examined since Owen started wearing glasses at 29 months.
We probably would have never taken Owen had I not been concerned he might have a turned eye. Turns out... he did not have a turned eye, just a wide, flat nose brim which made it appear his eye was turned when it really was not. Once he grew and his face changed it went away. Dr. M did notice a bit of an astigmatism in Owen's eye which he planned to watch and check at his next appointment the following year. The following year it was worse and that was when he started wearing glasses. At 29 months. Not at 14. I imagine keeping glasses on Adam will be harder than keeping a diaper and socks on our cat.
Our appointment was supposed to begin at 10, but we waited 45 minutes. Owen enjoyed playing with all the toys in the playroom, however Adam much preferred to walk around the waiting room waving at everyone, saying "hi", and showing off his pacifier.
We had a LOT of time to kill in this little room without any toys. I put my hair clip in Adam's hair and finally realized it is definitely a full blown mullet and he needs it cut.



After a short exam, Dr. M said Adam did have some astigmatism, but he would not know to what degree until he dialted his eyes and checked them further. If his eyes were within two units he would not prescribe glasses (obviously they are not within two units). So after poor Adam got three drops in each eye, I took the boys to get something to eat. We had 30 minutes and we made it back just in time. Dr. M had a heck of a time getting a reading on Adam's eyes. I have no idea how he knows that Adam has astigmatism or how he knows what his correct prescription should be. Despite having a TV and all sorts of things to draw children's attention, including a dancing dog and duck, Adam had had enough and as Dr. M told the nurse, "This is an example of an exam gone bad." It was rough. But again, if having bad eyes and needing to wear glasses is all the health issues we have with our boys... I will be beyond thankful!
To be honest, I thought today's appointment was to check his eyes, see if he has some astigmatism, and then see him back in a year to compare. I never expected him to need glasses now. I know I should trust Dr. M. He's one of the best pediatric opthamologists in the state and has won many awards and helped write numerous textbooks, but I still had some questions.
-How many kids do you think really need glasses at this age, but they never see an eye doctor until they are school age?
-Is it really worth trying to get him to keep glasses on? I picture him ripping them off his face and throwing them in his toy basket and Mike and I searching for them for days.
Dr. M held a lens up to my eye and showed me what Adam is seeing. It was so blurry. Maybe that explains why he practically pushes his face against the TV when we have it turned on. He also explained that if we don't try to correct his vision, his brain could turn his vision in his right eye (the bad eye) off and his vision in that eye will be permanently damaged. By getting him to wear glasses, even for just three hours a day, we are showing his brain what correct vision looks like and since he is so young and his brain is still developing, it could fix his vision so he won't need glasses in the future. That's what we are hoping. It is working for Owen. Dr. M is hopeful that by Owen's next eye exam, he may not need glasses at all!!!
Mike is going to take a half day so we can drive Adam up to Camp Hill to get glasses. Dr. M highly recommended this doctor and maybe she'll be able to give us some insight on how to get Adam to wear his glasses.
ok. I need a nap now.